CC P5 Be the real owner of yourself

Do you make plan, but always fail？Do you think all you need is time-management？That's not true. There is another more important thing for you to do！Come, to see what the key is！

I still remember, It was in the afternoon, and the next day I would have an exam. So I planed to study from 1 pm to 6 pm and have dinner and continue to study until 12pm. What a perfect plan.

So I  opened my book. Just 10 minute past, I felt I was thirsty so I tried to get water, but there was no more. So I went to ask my classmate to get some water, and he was watching a movie, I asked. "What are you watching? Wow, Automan! You are so childish. But I like it, let's watch together!" Then, when I came back to my room, it was 4 pm alreday. And I continued to study.

Just another 10 minutes past, I realized the new episode of the Detective Conan was available to watch. I asked myself : Should I watch it?  at that moment, there were two little men fighting with each other in my mind. (One, two!) This man said: Conan you should watch this movie, because it is very interesting. Also because your name is Conan too.  The other man said: Yes, he is right.

So I watched that movie.

When the movie finished I felt very sleepy, so I took a nap.  My god, it was 7 PM already, and I was quite hungry. And  I looked at my wechat, a girl I liked called me to  join in the party and eat together.  Then I asked myself again: "Should I go there?" this time, there were 3 little men fighting in my mind.

(one two three), this man said: You should go there, because you are hungry and you like the girl as well. do you think so? (Man B): Yes, I think so. He is right. and the third man said: No, you shouldn't listen to them, the girl doesn't have an exam, but you have. But if you really like her, you should go!

So I went to the party without any time to study.

So just look back to this story, I had a plan but there was always something wrong with my plan.

Have you happened to this situation before?

So what's the reason?is that because I couldn't make a plan or I couldn't manage my time?

Not really.  the problem actually comes from ourselves. And time management can only be effective after you become the real owner of yourself.

And the key is to know there is a real you inside yourself, not outside you like the little men. You are the real owner, not your brain, You should tell what You really need and what your brain needs.

So this time,  if you were me, and you just went back to my situation. You will have an exam tmr, So when The  little men show up, you should get your gun loaded, and kill them. And stand there for a while. If they are still not dead, you just give them one more shot. If there are many little men,  向觀眾開槍You Just Keep shooting until they are completly dead. Then you can go on with your study. Everything is following your plan.

So, if you want to pass the exam, You should know it is your brain who wants to watch a movie and join in the party, not you. Then you kill it and go on studying.

If you want to lose weight, You should know it is your brain who wants to eat the cake, not you. Then you kill it and stop eating but go running.

Your brain is your brain, it is not you, it is not your owner. You are the owner.

Knowing it and doing so,I become the real owner of myself.

So, Dear members, what about you？